Friday, November 23, 2012
Pictures: Beyonce Shows Off Her Braids And Her Baby Blue Ivy
The “Love on top” songstress shared some precious pictures of her family on her website Iam.Beyonce.com. Three new photos show off the couple’s darling relationship with their daughter Blue Ivy.
A braided Beyonce kisses her child on the cheek while Blue plays with one of mommy’s earrings, and in the other, Jay-Z holds his princess Blue as they walk down a path covered in vines. The flicks are both blissful and most likely taken on their recent family vacay.
A braided Beyonce kisses her child on the cheek while Blue plays with one of mommy’s earrings, and in the other, Jay-Z holds his princess Blue as they walk down a path covered in vines. The flicks are both blissful and most likely taken on their recent family vacay.
Jay-Z holds his daughter Blue Ivy Carter in an intimate photo posted on Instagram
Don Jazzy Is Giving Away 1 Million Naira - See How You Can Get It
Don Jazzy Is Giving Away 1 Million Naira - See How You Can Get It
Here is how it works;
Compliments of the season. Let me go straight to the point and tell you guys why we’re here. I have been contracted by the good people at Samsung to do the theme song for the coming Africa Cup of Nations. This is an early birthday gift for me (Big smile) lol. So I have decided to share this great moment with you. I thought about it and decided that instead of using one of my known colleagues, why not use one stone to kill plenty birds.
1. You stand a chance to win 1 million Naira
2. 1st, 2nd and 3rd runner ups get Two Hundred and fifty thousand naira(N250,000) each.
3. Winner Gets To Sing The Official Theme Song For Africa Cup Of Nations, Produced by Me.
4. You could be seen by a record label that might be interested in signing you.
2. 1st, 2nd and 3rd runner ups get Two Hundred and fifty thousand naira(N250,000) each.
3. Winner Gets To Sing The Official Theme Song For Africa Cup Of Nations, Produced by Me.
4. You could be seen by a record label that might be interested in signing you.
Go to www.mytruspot.com to see full competition procedure.
Ladies and Gents, Meet Ice Prine Zarmani's Sexy Girlfriend, Yvonne Nwosu
Ice Prince's love life is something I can eefectively describe as WA-ZO-BIA, as he has been linked to various girls in the past and even making a baby with one of his yoruba groupie.
Word now is that Ice Prince Panshak Zamani is getting it in with fashion desginer, Yvonne Nwosu if their public display of affective which include deep kissing, cuddling, tight hugging etc etc is anything to go by.
The pair were practically inseparable at musician KAS' birthday party, love is indeed a good thing and we wish them very happy love life and banging things, baby stuffs ahead.
Word now is that Ice Prince Panshak Zamani is getting it in with fashion desginer, Yvonne Nwosu if their public display of affective which include deep kissing, cuddling, tight hugging etc etc is anything to go by.
The pair were practically inseparable at musician KAS' birthday party, love is indeed a good thing and we wish them very happy love life and banging things, baby stuffs ahead.
Photo Of Tonto Dikeh Sweating Profusely At Keri Hilson Concert In Abuja
I notice Tonto Dikeh always sweat from her armpit, dont know if its a good thing, but i still do her anyway sweat or no sweat, even with the mami water tattoo
Kim Kardashian Shows Off Her Assets In A Tight Leather Legging
Leather is usually not in regular rotation in the average person’s wardrobe, but Kim Kardashian isn’t exactly your average person — except when it comes to the all-too-familiar fail associated with the risky fabric: bunching.
We can’t even remember that last time we've opted for anything leather because the thought of showing off an unseemly gathering in the crotch or rear vicinity is enough of a deterrent for us. Kim, on the other hand, is fearless. The reality star has worn all sorts of leather looks, from mini skirts to leggings to harem pants (unfortunately, those do exist).
Back to the leggings though. Kanye’s main squeeze decided to give those another go on Tuesday while passing through LAX airport. But, alas, the risk didn’t pay off this time. As soon as Kim showed her backside, that sneaky leather decided to ride up in that unfortunate upper thigh area — yikes! We doubt this is what the fashion entrepreneur had in mind.
Check out Kim’s leather legging ensemble below and tell us what you think. Do you wear the fabric or do you avoid it for the same reason we do?
We can’t even remember that last time we've opted for anything leather because the thought of showing off an unseemly gathering in the crotch or rear vicinity is enough of a deterrent for us. Kim, on the other hand, is fearless. The reality star has worn all sorts of leather looks, from mini skirts to leggings to harem pants (unfortunately, those do exist).
Back to the leggings though. Kanye’s main squeeze decided to give those another go on Tuesday while passing through LAX airport. But, alas, the risk didn’t pay off this time. As soon as Kim showed her backside, that sneaky leather decided to ride up in that unfortunate upper thigh area — yikes! We doubt this is what the fashion entrepreneur had in mind.
Check out Kim’s leather legging ensemble below and tell us what you think. Do you wear the fabric or do you avoid it for the same reason we do?
7 Things All Cheaters Need To Know
Dear Remorseless Cheaters,
Apparently there is still some confusion out there that your extracurricular shenanigans are wrong. In the interest of members of the unsuspecting public that may hook up, marry, or have children with you, the following PSA is offered.
1. You aren’t “edgy.” You think we lack the sophistication and intellect to understand your complicated love rhombus. On the contrary. You lack the intellect to keep both your security clearance and your pants on. Cheating on your spouse doesn’t make you special, misunderstood, or star crossed. It makes you rather embarrassing.
2. Quit with your Darwinian theories already. We didn’t evolve to be monogamous? Well, we didn’t evolve to do a lot of things. Farm. Use indoor plumbing. Buy sequined crap on QVC. And yet we manage. Why is it that you blame your primal self for infidelity, yet you are quite adept at technologies such as placing personal ads on Craigslist? Why point to the reptilian part of your brain as an excuse for boinking whomever you want to? When the spouse of that person comes after you with a shotgun, neither you nor the court of law will be much impressed with his argument that the reptilian part of his brain would like to splatter your guts on the sidewalk.
3. Admit that you like the deceit.
Come on, it’s a high. Playing hooky is a lot more fun than getting a day off from school. Everyone there in the classroom, playing by the rules, listening to a boring lecture on the Continental Congress, while you smoke dope behind the bleachers. Renegade! The secrecy and lies are what gives the frisson of danger to your affair and makes it so delicious. Otherwise you would have an open marriage, same rules for everyone. But no, the power imbalance is what you’re after. You enjoy a position of advantage over your trusting partner. They’re at home, devoting their energies to you and your home life, faithful to the wonderfulness that is you. Sweet gig you got there — and you know it.
4. Stop minimizing. Cheating is no big deal? Quit getting those puritanical knickers in a twist? It’s just a quick naughty with the boots on. Nothing to get so huffy about. Geez.
Tell that to the man who had to paternity test his children. Or to the spouse who gets an STD thanks to you. Or to the stay-at-home mother who made herself financially vulnerable to your cheating ass. Or to the children who lost their intact family and get shuttled around next holiday season, having to play nice with your latest flame.
When your family reminds you of your selfish choices that led to these outcomes, you’ll be tempted to tell them that they are bitter and should stop playing at “victimhood.” They are not pretending to be victims — they are victims. How they navigate away from that pain is up to them. You’ve got no business telling them to suck it up. When the urge strikes, distract yourself, perhaps with a sparkly object like a mirror, an exercise class, or by slapping yourself.
5. Swingers, open marriage aficionados, the polyamorous — no one is judging you. Have at it. It’s not cheating if everyone is consenting and on board. This public service announcement does not apply to you.
6. No one is forcing you to stay married.
If you don’t want to be monogamous, don’t be. Find another person like yourself and quit feigning monogamy. If your marriage is truly awful and sexless and your love language is seething passive aggression, find your guts and just end it honestly. But your spouse and children couldn’t function without you? They need you too much? Let them be the judge of that. You may find that they get on quite well without you. Your partner is a person deserving of respect and honesty, not a consolation prize. It’s condescending to act like life with them is a huge sacrifice. Lay your “burden” down already.
7. This is not your best self.
It is understandable that you want to think of yourself as a good person. Our character, however, is made up of our actions. Not how we wish to perceive ourselves. People who don’t care who they are hurting, who lack empathy synapses and introspection? We call those people sociopaths. Don’t be like that. (And if you are truly like that, no public service announcement in the world can save you.) You’re better than this. Please go live an authentic life.
Apparently there is still some confusion out there that your extracurricular shenanigans are wrong. In the interest of members of the unsuspecting public that may hook up, marry, or have children with you, the following PSA is offered.
1. You aren’t “edgy.” You think we lack the sophistication and intellect to understand your complicated love rhombus. On the contrary. You lack the intellect to keep both your security clearance and your pants on. Cheating on your spouse doesn’t make you special, misunderstood, or star crossed. It makes you rather embarrassing.
2. Quit with your Darwinian theories already. We didn’t evolve to be monogamous? Well, we didn’t evolve to do a lot of things. Farm. Use indoor plumbing. Buy sequined crap on QVC. And yet we manage. Why is it that you blame your primal self for infidelity, yet you are quite adept at technologies such as placing personal ads on Craigslist? Why point to the reptilian part of your brain as an excuse for boinking whomever you want to? When the spouse of that person comes after you with a shotgun, neither you nor the court of law will be much impressed with his argument that the reptilian part of his brain would like to splatter your guts on the sidewalk.
3. Admit that you like the deceit.
Come on, it’s a high. Playing hooky is a lot more fun than getting a day off from school. Everyone there in the classroom, playing by the rules, listening to a boring lecture on the Continental Congress, while you smoke dope behind the bleachers. Renegade! The secrecy and lies are what gives the frisson of danger to your affair and makes it so delicious. Otherwise you would have an open marriage, same rules for everyone. But no, the power imbalance is what you’re after. You enjoy a position of advantage over your trusting partner. They’re at home, devoting their energies to you and your home life, faithful to the wonderfulness that is you. Sweet gig you got there — and you know it.
4. Stop minimizing. Cheating is no big deal? Quit getting those puritanical knickers in a twist? It’s just a quick naughty with the boots on. Nothing to get so huffy about. Geez.
Tell that to the man who had to paternity test his children. Or to the spouse who gets an STD thanks to you. Or to the stay-at-home mother who made herself financially vulnerable to your cheating ass. Or to the children who lost their intact family and get shuttled around next holiday season, having to play nice with your latest flame.
When your family reminds you of your selfish choices that led to these outcomes, you’ll be tempted to tell them that they are bitter and should stop playing at “victimhood.” They are not pretending to be victims — they are victims. How they navigate away from that pain is up to them. You’ve got no business telling them to suck it up. When the urge strikes, distract yourself, perhaps with a sparkly object like a mirror, an exercise class, or by slapping yourself.
5. Swingers, open marriage aficionados, the polyamorous — no one is judging you. Have at it. It’s not cheating if everyone is consenting and on board. This public service announcement does not apply to you.
6. No one is forcing you to stay married.
If you don’t want to be monogamous, don’t be. Find another person like yourself and quit feigning monogamy. If your marriage is truly awful and sexless and your love language is seething passive aggression, find your guts and just end it honestly. But your spouse and children couldn’t function without you? They need you too much? Let them be the judge of that. You may find that they get on quite well without you. Your partner is a person deserving of respect and honesty, not a consolation prize. It’s condescending to act like life with them is a huge sacrifice. Lay your “burden” down already.
7. This is not your best self.
It is understandable that you want to think of yourself as a good person. Our character, however, is made up of our actions. Not how we wish to perceive ourselves. People who don’t care who they are hurting, who lack empathy synapses and introspection? We call those people sociopaths. Don’t be like that. (And if you are truly like that, no public service announcement in the world can save you.) You’re better than this. Please go live an authentic life.
Nigerian Muslim riot leaves 4 dead
KANO - A mispronunciation taken to be blasphemous in Nigeria's north sparked a riot by Muslim youths Thursday, leaving four people dead as well as a church and shops burnt, police and residents said. "What happened in (the town of) Bichi was misinformation," Kano state police chief Ibrahim Idris told reporters. "Rumours went round that someone blasphemed the Prophet and there was a breakdown of law and order." Residents reported four people dead along with the church and Christian-owned shops burnt. Soldiers and policemen deployed in the town.
The riot came on the same day that former British prime minister Tony Blair and the incoming spiritual head of the world's Anglicans Justin Welby launched an initiative in the Nigerian capital Abuja aimed at Muslim-Christian reconciliation. According to Idris, a Christian tailor mispronounced the name of a dress while chatting with his Muslim neighbour in Hausa, the major language spoken in the north, changing the meaning to 'the Prophet has come to the market'. Idris however denied anyone was killed, though residents spoke of the deaths. Bichi is located some 30 kilometres (18 miles) from Kano, the largest city in Nigeria's mainly Muslim north. "Four Igbos were killed in the attacks. One of them was thrown into a ditch near my house," one resident said, referring to a mainly Christian ethnic group. "Scores of shops owned by Christians and a church were burnt by a large mob of Muslim youth who set bonfires on the road and disrupted traffic."
The riot came on the same day that former British prime minister Tony Blair and the incoming spiritual head of the world's Anglicans Justin Welby launched an initiative in the Nigerian capital Abuja aimed at Muslim-Christian reconciliation. According to Idris, a Christian tailor mispronounced the name of a dress while chatting with his Muslim neighbour in Hausa, the major language spoken in the north, changing the meaning to 'the Prophet has come to the market'. Idris however denied anyone was killed, though residents spoke of the deaths. Bichi is located some 30 kilometres (18 miles) from Kano, the largest city in Nigeria's mainly Muslim north. "Four Igbos were killed in the attacks. One of them was thrown into a ditch near my house," one resident said, referring to a mainly Christian ethnic group. "Scores of shops owned by Christians and a church were burnt by a large mob of Muslim youth who set bonfires on the road and disrupted traffic."
OMG : Gunmen invade Delta hospital, abduct 3 patients
Gunmen suspected to be ritualists have invaded the Tuberculosis and Leprosy Centre at Sanubi Town in Ughelli North Local Government Area of Delta State, taking away three inmates in the process. They were said to have stormed the centre in a commando-like style and ordered all those present to lie face down.
The bandits thereafter kidnapped three inmates on treatment before escaping to unknown destination. But the police, who trailed the hoodlums, following a distressed call from anonymous source, later rescued the victims at Ugolo-Orogun. Delta State Command Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Charles Muka confirmed the failed abduction attempt to Daily Sun yesterday in Asaba.
Muka said based on information, the hoodlums were trailed to Ugolo-Orogun and on noticing that police were closing in on them, they abandoned the victims and escaped. The police image-maker said no arrest had been made, but that the command had spread its dragnets to trap the fleeing bandits.
The bandits thereafter kidnapped three inmates on treatment before escaping to unknown destination. But the police, who trailed the hoodlums, following a distressed call from anonymous source, later rescued the victims at Ugolo-Orogun. Delta State Command Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Charles Muka confirmed the failed abduction attempt to Daily Sun yesterday in Asaba.
Muka said based on information, the hoodlums were trailed to Ugolo-Orogun and on noticing that police were closing in on them, they abandoned the victims and escaped. The police image-maker said no arrest had been made, but that the command had spread its dragnets to trap the fleeing bandits.
Nigerian Woman Sentenced to 80 Years Imprisonment In US
A Houston jury has reached a decision on the sentencing phase of the trial against Jessica Tata, a daycare owner whose home caught fire, killing and injuring several children.
On November 13, Tata was found guilty of murder and sentenced to 80 years in prison.
Tata, 24, left children in a home on Crest Park near Waypark alone with a pan of grease heating on a stove while she went shopping on February 24, 2011.
When she got home, the house was on fire. Elias, Shomari d**kerson, 3; Elizabeth Kojah, 20 months, and Kendyll Stradford, 20 months, all died in the fire. Three other children were hurt.
Jurors took eight hours to decide on punishment. Tata will be eligible for parole in 30 years.
Tata wiped away tears as her attorney, Mike DeGeurin, said the fire and deaths were an accident. He said Tata made a mistake and never intended for the children to be hurt because she loved them.
“She should have called for help or she should have said to herself, ‘I’ll wait until they wake up, change their diapers, I’ll load them up in the car and we’ll go shopping together,’” DeGeurin said. “But she didn’t.”
DeGeurin said that Tata will forever pay, no matter how long she spends in prison, for using bad judgment.
On November 13, Tata was found guilty of murder and sentenced to 80 years in prison.
Tata, 24, left children in a home on Crest Park near Waypark alone with a pan of grease heating on a stove while she went shopping on February 24, 2011.
When she got home, the house was on fire. Elias, Shomari d**kerson, 3; Elizabeth Kojah, 20 months, and Kendyll Stradford, 20 months, all died in the fire. Three other children were hurt.
Jurors took eight hours to decide on punishment. Tata will be eligible for parole in 30 years.
Tata wiped away tears as her attorney, Mike DeGeurin, said the fire and deaths were an accident. He said Tata made a mistake and never intended for the children to be hurt because she loved them.
“She should have called for help or she should have said to herself, ‘I’ll wait until they wake up, change their diapers, I’ll load them up in the car and we’ll go shopping together,’” DeGeurin said. “But she didn’t.”
DeGeurin said that Tata will forever pay, no matter how long she spends in prison, for using bad judgment.
MADNESS!!! [Photos] Nigerian Woman Spends N75 Billion On Louboutins Shoes
What would one person do with 120 Pairs of Christian Louboutin? that's just a brand, not to talk of several other brands of shoes. That's not all, the same person also has in her collection 30 Hermes bags, costing on the average about £5000 each, meaning for the Hermes bags alone that about £150,000 Pounds.
The Louboutins at about £500 each would come to £60,000. That's £210,000 for just 2 brands in the wardrobe of a 28 years old woman, estimated to £300 Million Pounds.
Mind you, the Hermes bags is only estimated at its cheapest, some are between £5000 to as much as £150,000 Pounds. Remember also, that the Louboutins are not the Nigerian type ones. So welcome to Tamara Ecclestone's world.
Most probably if a poll is conducted, its might just reveal that Nigerians wear more Louboutins and carry more Hermes than other nationalities of the world.
The Louboutins at about £500 each would come to £60,000. That's £210,000 for just 2 brands in the wardrobe of a 28 years old woman, estimated to £300 Million Pounds.
Mind you, the Hermes bags is only estimated at its cheapest, some are between £5000 to as much as £150,000 Pounds. Remember also, that the Louboutins are not the Nigerian type ones. So welcome to Tamara Ecclestone's world.
Most probably if a poll is conducted, its might just reveal that Nigerians wear more Louboutins and carry more Hermes than other nationalities of the world.
Woman Tries To Suffocate Her Boyfriend To Death With Her Big B00bs
This sounds hilarious. Franziska, 33 from Germany, who weighs nine stone is accused of ‘attempted manslaughter with a weapon’ after her 13-stone boyfriend claimed she tried to smother him with her breasts and pretend it was a sex game.
She denies the claim saying it was a sex game and he knew what it was all about.Tim Schmidt told the German court that although they had had a difficult relationship, until then everything in the bedroom had been normal.
‘The incident happened in May, we were having sex,’ he said. ‘She was sitting on me unclad and I was kissing her breasts. Suddenly she grabbed my head and pushed between her breasts with all of her force.
‘I couldn’t breathe any more, I must have turned blue. I couldn’t tear myself free and I thought I was going to die.’
He said that with his last reserves of strength he had managed to extricate himself from the woman’s vice-like grip and fled unclad to a neighbour and demanded he called the police.
Mr Schmidt said when they met four years ago, the couple had been completely in love.
He said: ‘Everything was great between us – and I would have done everything for her. But it started to go wrong when I got my first job as a lawyer and we moved to Unna.
‘She could not hold down a job and just had one part-time job after the other. And the better my career went – the worst it seemed to be for her.’
He said Franziska tried to kill him after learning he was planning to leave her.
‘It is clear she wanted to kill me,’ he said. ‘She even admitted it to me on the telephone. I asked her why she wanted to smother me to death with her breasts and she told me: “Treasure – I wanted your death to be as pleasurable as possible.”
She denies the claim saying it was a sex game and he knew what it was all about.Tim Schmidt told the German court that although they had had a difficult relationship, until then everything in the bedroom had been normal.
‘The incident happened in May, we were having sex,’ he said. ‘She was sitting on me unclad and I was kissing her breasts. Suddenly she grabbed my head and pushed between her breasts with all of her force.
‘I couldn’t breathe any more, I must have turned blue. I couldn’t tear myself free and I thought I was going to die.’
He said that with his last reserves of strength he had managed to extricate himself from the woman’s vice-like grip and fled unclad to a neighbour and demanded he called the police.
Mr Schmidt said when they met four years ago, the couple had been completely in love.
He said: ‘Everything was great between us – and I would have done everything for her. But it started to go wrong when I got my first job as a lawyer and we moved to Unna.
‘She could not hold down a job and just had one part-time job after the other. And the better my career went – the worst it seemed to be for her.’
He said Franziska tried to kill him after learning he was planning to leave her.
‘It is clear she wanted to kill me,’ he said. ‘She even admitted it to me on the telephone. I asked her why she wanted to smother me to death with her breasts and she told me: “Treasure – I wanted your death to be as pleasurable as possible.”
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
10 Tips To Sustain Your Marriage
You feel like you have met your soulmate. Everything you always dreamt of has finally come true. You marry and wait for the happily home. Somehow, the wait seems endless! With each passing day, you seem to be thinking about how to make your marriage work. No need to worry further, I bring you ideas for sustaining your relationship and help you fall in love all over again. Read on further to know the top 10 tips to sustain your marriage .
How To Make Your Marriage Work
i. Show Love
Never ever let love diminish from your lives. So what if you are busy with work and handling three jobs at a time? You are married to your beloved, not your work. Often people feel neglected as they feel their partner does not love them the way they used to . Even if it means saying a simple"I love you"with quick peck, make you sure you do it everyday. It works wonders and keeps you together even through the toughest times.
ii. Don't Nag
You have to understand that every person has a limit of tolerance. Once you push the person beyond that level, trouble occurs. Don't keep nagging your partner to do things the way you like to . Just because you are married to them does not mean they can't think or do things their way. Just say what you have in mind and wait for your partner to respond. You will be surprised to see the results.
iii. Respect your Partner
You give respect, you get respect. Don't forget he/she still has an individual identity, despite the fact that you are a couple. Respect your partner's feelings and you will have much more years of happiness in your life.
iv. Resolve Fights
Never ever leave fights or bitter arguments for the next time. Resolve your arguments and fights then and there. Do not be hesitate to say"sorry"if it is your mistake. You will see how easy it is to resolve fights and forgive each other and truly forget it. Do not bring up old issues, as it will unnecessarily complicate an already delicate situation. It is better to forgive and forget than fret forever!!
v. Communicate
Talk to each other as much as you can. It helps to bring two people closer and you get to understand each other better. Look at it this way. Some of the most amazing conversations you can think of have taken place with the one you love.
vi. Be Faithful
In order to keep a relation alive, you have to have faith and trust in your bloved. No one is perfect and you have to accept the other person just as he/she accepts you, with the positives and negatives. There is a very thin line of difference between trust and faith and it is very important to trust your partner and have faith in yourself to keep the relationship going.
vii. Compromises
Everyone is required to make compromises at some point in life. It is not possible to have everything that you desire for, at the expense of someone else. You have to adjust to make yourself and your partner happy. Rest assured that when time comes, he/she would go out of way to make you comfortable.
viii. Take a Break
Allot one day in a week that you will devote just for the two of you. It could be every Sunday and it need not be anything extravagant or too mushy. Just be with him/her for an entire day even if it means helping her with the dishes or watching a game with him.
ix. Special Days
Whatever you do, do not forget important dates. Remember birthdays and anniversaries. They are special days and every year they add another milestone to your relationship, reminding you that there are many more happy days to come.
x. Do Not Underestimate
Whatever your partner does to make you happy should be valued. Never underestimate the value or effort of your partner. It gives a bad face-off to your relationship. Just make your partner feel important and special, and you would be sailing on the ship of a happy marriage all your life!
How To Make Your Marriage Work
i. Show Love
Never ever let love diminish from your lives. So what if you are busy with work and handling three jobs at a time? You are married to your beloved, not your work. Often people feel neglected as they feel their partner does not love them the way they used to . Even if it means saying a simple"I love you"with quick peck, make you sure you do it everyday. It works wonders and keeps you together even through the toughest times.
ii. Don't Nag
You have to understand that every person has a limit of tolerance. Once you push the person beyond that level, trouble occurs. Don't keep nagging your partner to do things the way you like to . Just because you are married to them does not mean they can't think or do things their way. Just say what you have in mind and wait for your partner to respond. You will be surprised to see the results.
iii. Respect your Partner
You give respect, you get respect. Don't forget he/she still has an individual identity, despite the fact that you are a couple. Respect your partner's feelings and you will have much more years of happiness in your life.
iv. Resolve Fights
Never ever leave fights or bitter arguments for the next time. Resolve your arguments and fights then and there. Do not be hesitate to say"sorry"if it is your mistake. You will see how easy it is to resolve fights and forgive each other and truly forget it. Do not bring up old issues, as it will unnecessarily complicate an already delicate situation. It is better to forgive and forget than fret forever!!
v. Communicate
Talk to each other as much as you can. It helps to bring two people closer and you get to understand each other better. Look at it this way. Some of the most amazing conversations you can think of have taken place with the one you love.
vi. Be Faithful
In order to keep a relation alive, you have to have faith and trust in your bloved. No one is perfect and you have to accept the other person just as he/she accepts you, with the positives and negatives. There is a very thin line of difference between trust and faith and it is very important to trust your partner and have faith in yourself to keep the relationship going.
vii. Compromises
Everyone is required to make compromises at some point in life. It is not possible to have everything that you desire for, at the expense of someone else. You have to adjust to make yourself and your partner happy. Rest assured that when time comes, he/she would go out of way to make you comfortable.
viii. Take a Break
Allot one day in a week that you will devote just for the two of you. It could be every Sunday and it need not be anything extravagant or too mushy. Just be with him/her for an entire day even if it means helping her with the dishes or watching a game with him.
ix. Special Days
Whatever you do, do not forget important dates. Remember birthdays and anniversaries. They are special days and every year they add another milestone to your relationship, reminding you that there are many more happy days to come.
x. Do Not Underestimate
Whatever your partner does to make you happy should be valued. Never underestimate the value or effort of your partner. It gives a bad face-off to your relationship. Just make your partner feel important and special, and you would be sailing on the ship of a happy marriage all your life!
14 Tips On How To Pick Between Two Men You Like
Some decisions are truly hard to make, and when you’re faced with two options in the dating game, it’s pretty important that you’re able to make the right choice.
you are smitten with two guys and you’re ready to settle with just one, here are some things to consider when making the choice.
Which guy makes you feel better?
When you’re out with each guy, listen to your heart and your gut feelings and see which one makes you feel the most liked and cared for.
Think about your future.
Think about what your future looks like and then see which guy best fits your plans.
Weigh the attractiveness.
If one guy is much more attractive to you than the other, take that into consideration.
Compare their efforts.
Has one of the guys put more effort and time towards dates and being together? This could be a deciding factor.
Ask your friends and family.
You don’t want your friends and family to have too much of a say but if you’re having a hard time deciding, ask for some advice. It’s never a bad idea to have outside opinions.
Who is more compatible with you?
With any relationship, compatibility is a must. Analyze both of the guys and decide which one is more like you.
Who is better in bed?
Okay so bedroom activities shouldn’t be the basis of your relationship, but which guy really gets you going in the sheets?
Make a list of the pros and cons.
Take some time and make a list of the pros and cons of both guys. Which guy has the most pros?
Could you see yourself loving one of the guys?
If you’re looking to seriously date, think about which guy you think you could fall in love with.
Money talks.
Does one of the guys have a more stable well-paying job? Money isn’t everything but it can make a difference in the long run.
Who crosses your mind more?
Surely you think about both guys, but it’s likely that you think about one of them more often than the other.
Does one seem more willing to be exclusive?
Has either one of the guys mentioned going exclusive? If so, take that as a huge hint.
Who have you known the longest?
Being friends and getting to know a guy for a few months is helpful when it comes time to taking it to the next level. If you’ve known one of the guys much longer than the other, keep it in mind.
Decide if choosing is an absolute must.
There’s nothing wrong with playing the field and if you’re not completely ready to settle down and be exclusive with one of the guys, don’t.
12 Reasons Why Women Can't Stand Nice Guys
Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here's why.
Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real”. Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.
Respect: No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect = No attraction.
Predictable: Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable + No excitement + No challenge = I prefer a bad boy.
Mother Nature: Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think that will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.
Fixer-Upper: Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.
Sperm wars: Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.
Fear of intimacy: If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.
Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with.
Sex: Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.
Hot: Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot”.
13 Signs That Your Friend Is In Love With You
13 Signs That Your Friend Is In Love With You
Here are some common simple signs to detect if your friend likes you more than a friend.
1. Your friend is very happy and lively when you are together. You can see it on his or her eyes.
2. Your friend is always available for you, he or she will even cancel an appointment for you.
3. Your friend is excited when you made a phone call, he or she will not even attempt to cut you phone conversation.
4. Your friend is always looking for you without any reason.
5. Your friend will ask you who is your crush or what do you want to a boy or girl, and if you ask why, your friend will just tell you that someone was asking.
6. Your friend is inviting you to eat outside or watch movies together.
7. Your friend will try to make you jealous to know if you care.
8. Your friend will do the things you like even though he or she doesn’t do that before. Your friend will only do that because of your company.
9. Your friend was touching you or holding your hands.
10. Your friend was asking about your family and yourself and your plans in the future.
11. Your friend will not run out of questions and stories for you. Even if your friend is a shy type, your friend will make a way to have something to talk about, even if its repeated many times.
13. You will catch your friend staring at you. Because when a person is in love, it’s very difficult to control looking at someone he or she likes.
After you see the signs and If you like your friend to be more than a friend, you can wait until your friend confirm it to you. If your friend becomes extra sweet and thoughtful, became extra sweet and thoughtful also, that way, your friend will have courage to tell you what he or she feels.
If you don’t like the acts of your friend and you just want to maintain the friendship, distance a little, but not too much, that will give your friend a signal that you don’t like a relationship more than friendship.
1. Your friend is very happy and lively when you are together. You can see it on his or her eyes.
2. Your friend is always available for you, he or she will even cancel an appointment for you.
3. Your friend is excited when you made a phone call, he or she will not even attempt to cut you phone conversation.
4. Your friend is always looking for you without any reason.
5. Your friend will ask you who is your crush or what do you want to a boy or girl, and if you ask why, your friend will just tell you that someone was asking.
6. Your friend is inviting you to eat outside or watch movies together.
7. Your friend will try to make you jealous to know if you care.
8. Your friend will do the things you like even though he or she doesn’t do that before. Your friend will only do that because of your company.
9. Your friend was touching you or holding your hands.
10. Your friend was asking about your family and yourself and your plans in the future.
11. Your friend will not run out of questions and stories for you. Even if your friend is a shy type, your friend will make a way to have something to talk about, even if its repeated many times.
13. You will catch your friend staring at you. Because when a person is in love, it’s very difficult to control looking at someone he or she likes.
After you see the signs and If you like your friend to be more than a friend, you can wait until your friend confirm it to you. If your friend becomes extra sweet and thoughtful, became extra sweet and thoughtful also, that way, your friend will have courage to tell you what he or she feels.
If you don’t like the acts of your friend and you just want to maintain the friendship, distance a little, but not too much, that will give your friend a signal that you don’t like a relationship more than friendship.
Friday, September 7, 2012
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