ANOTHER LONELY NIGHT

It was a silent night 

Another lonely night

I glazed thru my window

Felt the cold breeze

Running through my vein 

With a lovely smile 

making a beautiful curve

Beneath my cheek. 

Into the dark I look

deeper and deeper 

Hoping to see u 

But all I felt was my fist

Holding so tight telling me

u are on the way:                                                                             by fisayo

DOVE OF PEACE UPON MY WINDOW

I was walking home one day,

When I heard a beautiful song,

I stopped walking right away,

...And I smiled like I hadn’t for so long.

Admiring d heavenly music,

I couldn’t keep on going,

Because I had that feeling,

That something good was coming.

And it did, I met you,

precious sweet HOLY SPIRIT

And I am so glad to know,

That no matter how hard the wind may blow,

I’ve found in you,

A dove of peace upon my window.

A song of joy, a voice of hope,

is what I enjoy in every note,

and as I hear the melodies you play,

I want to say,

Thank you for bringing back,

Some sunshine into my life.

So, you have found “the one”, huh? He was at that party, you lifted your dress a little to show off your thighs the minute he walked passed. He looked back, liked what he saw; told the waiter to send a bottle to your table and then asked if he could join you. He sees you to your car after bouts of alcohol and laughter. He calls by midnight to check if you are home safe. The next day, he sends SMS in the evening when you are stuck in traffic, and calls before you go to bed. You are already planning the weekend with him in mind – some light entertainment at a bar and then invite him over to yours – now, PAUSE!

Before you take him seriously, you may want to check out a few places that can throw more light on the kind of dude he really is…

1. Pay him a visit on Twitter: Twitter might just be the easiest place to know if this dude has a brain or not; if he is a chauvinist; a sedentary follower – or worst still, a lively follow-me-tiwa-savage-or-I’ll-hang-myself idiot. You can find out if he has any original ideas of his own, or is just good at re-tweeting other people’s ingenious ideas or just LOL-ing like a cow all the time. Is he the bandwagon type (everyone hates Jason Derulo, so yes he hates him too)? You can tell a thing or two by the number of his followers – is he crowded by guys who just hang around celebrities without a clear sense of purpose, are his followers a bunch of boobs-flashing-booty-showing babes, or a group of followers that seem to have a life to live? How active is he on twitter? Does he tweet every day, reply every tweet? With 105,678 tweets unrelated to any clear objective to life or his career, can you truly say this is the kind of dude you want to date?

 2.Visit his crib: instinctively, his apartment will reveal more than you might bargain for. He most likely will invite you anyway because he is hoping y’all will end up somewhere between the sheets after a couple of drinks; but your aim at the moment is different, so stick with the plan! Here are a few things his crib may uncover: he is dirty/careless/neat/super-neat; he can cook/can’t cook; he is artistic/ordinary; he is trendy/square; he loves sports/doesn’t care much; he has a girlfriend/he is a player/he is single… Like I said, intuitively you can sum up very vital information on him just by being a guest at his place.

3. Drop by at his office: the go-getter is every woman’s desire. We want a man who’s got the kicks in the “boardroom” (boardroom is used in a generic term for anywhere that demands efficiency). Men are usually at their best professional behaviour when they get to their offices. If you want to know if you’ll be dating the door-man or the guy whose ideas and presence is significant, then walk by his office one afternoon and see if he’s got any elements of greatness or just another regular dude that gets pushed around by others.

4. Take a peek into the state of his heart: is he a damaged man? Is he holding on to grudges from a past relationship? Is he prone to commitment? Is he afraid? Does he hate women (many guys do, they just don’t know it)? Is he happy with his life? Content? Is he repulsed by certain things women do? Does he like sex? Is he adventurous? If you take a trip through his heart you’ll best know if you should stay or take a walk.

5. Visit his Ex: technically, yes. Don’t go snooping around acting like a detective, or worse – a psycho. You don’t need to meet any Ex, you just need to get into a conversation with him where you tilt towards those uncomfortable areas. If he’s going to share the reasons why he broke up with his last girlfriend – he will. If he doesn’t, don’t push. Let’s imagine he doesn’t mind sharing and you both get really cosy (remember, he wants to date you. All of these will not apply if both parties are only interested in the sex), if he goes off addressing his ex with very unpleasant terms, then you may need to be alert or cautious, especially if he still won’t let out the true cause of separation. The ‘ex’ discussion is usually the best way to weigh the temperament of people. How bad does he hurt? What does he do when he is hurt? How does he handle hurt? How does he handle those who hurt him? Does he heal quickly or pretend to be macho? With the Ex on the table, you’ll discover emotions – real and scary – that would help you decide if you should go ahead and date this guy.

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Someone once shared this story with me about some frogs that decided to climb a tower.

Many people told the frogs it wasn't possible and that they would never make it to the top of the tower.

They went ahead all the same and started climbing. As they climbed, the pessimists also kept discouraging them.

One by one, all the frogs gave up because of the things they kept hearing and eventually only one little frog made it to the top of the tower.

When the little frog was asked how it was the only one who made it to the top, they found out it was deaf.

In many cases in life, we fail not because we can't succeed but because of the things people say around us.

If that frog had heard the voices of discouragement around it, it would probably not have made it to the top.

Public opinion is one graveyard where lots of dreams and visions have been buried.

"A man who wants to lead an orchestra must turn his back on the crowd." James Crook

Therefore to succeed in life you can't afford to believe in what the pessimists tell you.

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:13

Believe in God who can not lie and won't tell you what you can't do; also believe in yourself. You will make it this time. God bless you.
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